Our journeys are never the same.
There may be similarities; for instance, we’re all carrying extra weight. We all have some things to shed. A portion of your weight might look familiar to me; we may meet at a juncture and connect over the shared burden.
But, I do not know what came before that point for you, and vice versa. You may be in the very beginning, the middle or nearing the end of this particular climb.
We may continue on the same path together for a while, or we may choose alternate routes. We could also travel along the same path, but at different paces.
I might not see your path; you might not choose to travel mine. If you did, you might see something along that very same course that I didn’t.
We often make the mistake of following someone else’s path to get a similar result.
Take what you want, and leave the rest. Some things are just not necessary tools for your journey.